WikiSexGuide in Bochum Train Stop

Bochum Sex Guide advises where to find sex, working girls, prostitution, street hookers, brothels, red-light districts, sex shops, prostitutes, erotic massage parlors, strip clubs, FKK Clubs and escorts in Bochum, Germany.

Bochum (German pronunciation: [ˈboːxʊm]; Westphalian: Baukem) is a city in the state of North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany and part of the Arnsberg region. It is located in the Ruhr area and is surrounded by the cities (in clockwise direction) of Herne, Castrop-Rauxel, Dortmund, Witten, Hattingen, Essen and Gelsenkirchen. With a population of nearly 365,000, it is the 16th most populous city in Germany.

Sex Scene and Prostitution

Sections and Districts in Bochum

Bochum is not the number one sex destination in Germany. Nearby city Düsseldorf has much bigger sex scene. You can still find a good fuck in Bochum, so you don´t need to worry about not getting laid.

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Red Light Districts

Im Winkel, off Gussstahlstrasse. At this Red-light district, the RoteHaus Laufhaus stands on the corner at the beginning of the street and another 'Laufhaus' is at the other end. Sex costs 30-50 euro and price includes a suck and fuck. The local slang names for the area include apparently Gurke, Eierberg and Riemenwalzwerk.

How to Get There

From the Rathaus, go along Willy-Brandt-Platz and you will see Bochum West train station ahead. Do not go as far as the station but turn right and then next left onto Gussstahlstrasse. Bochum West (on the line between Bochum and Gelsenkirchen) does have an entrance directly onto Gussstahlstrasse.

Prostitutes and Sex Workers

It is thought that around two thirds of the Germany's 400,000 sex workers come from other countries.

Red-light districts have also become much more prominent in Germany's major cities - there is approximately 3500 established brothels in Germany and the trade is now big business.

According to the Ministry of Health, there are 30,000 sex workers in North Rhine-Westphalia. About 80 percent of prostitutes have a migration background. Most prostitutes and escorts come from South Eastern Europe - Bulgaria, Romania, Ukraine, Czech Republic, Russia and Poland.

It is estimated that around 500 prostitutes work in Bochum. You can find sexy hookers from whore houses, sauna clubs, apartments, hotels and other premises.

Street Hookers

Regular street prostitution (Straßenprostitution) in Germany is often very well organized and sometimes controlled by pimps. Most German cities however established "Sperrbezirke" (off-limits zones) and charge the street prostitutes an amusement tax, that in the city of Bonn for instance is paid by the streethookers at parking meters, 6€ for a period of about 8 hours at nightime. The same fee is collected from sex workers in apartments and brothels, sometimes by municipal tax collectors in person. Some street whores have a nearby caravan, others use the customer's car, still others use hotel rooms. With recent economic problems, in some bigger cities "wild" street prostitution has started to appear: areas where prostitutes work temporarily out of short-term financial need. A "Sex drive-in", or "Verrichtungsbox", is a facility of structures to enclose cars to provide a safer place for sex workers using cars.

See Also: Tippelzone & Sex drive-in

Where to find Street Prostitutes in Bochum

There is not really any street prostitution activity in Bochum, so you better just go to the brothels or order an escort to your hotel.

Strip Clubs & Lap Dance

Basic American style gentlemen´s clubs where you can only drink beer, get a lap-dance and nothing else, are not so common in Germany. In Germany most strip joints are hardcore. At some strip clubs you can also have sex with the dancers in a private room provided at the strip joint, or sometimes even take a stripper with you to your hotel room and fuck her there. It is always more expensive to have sex at the nude bar, than what it is in a Laufhaus Brothels. So if you just want to have sex in Germany, it is not recommended to go to the Strip club. Most girls who work as a strippers in Germany come from Eastern Europe and South America. Entrance fee to the nude bar is usually not much, drinks are usually affordable too, but if you order drinks or champagne to the strippers, you can get a huge bill!

Where to find Strip Clubs in Bochum

  • FKK Sauna Club Freude 39, Freudenbergstr. 39, 44809
Phone: 0234 - 8939464, Open: 10:00 - 01:00 FKK Sauna Club offers erotic shows, massage, hookers etc. The club with over 1000 square meters indoor area one of the largest in the country and with its close location to the A40 to reach quickly and easily.
  • Solid-Gold, Gußstahlstraße 31, tel.: +49 234 6404777
  • Golden-Girls, Viktoriastraße 22-26, tel.: +49 234 9049954


Germany has always had brothels and red light districts. About 30 years ago in a town called Lichtenberg outside of Bonn a man started the first FKK club. The term FKK means "Frei Korper Kultur" Free Body Culture which translates best to "nudist". The difference between a normal brothel and an FKK club was the presentation and system. The owner and inventor named "Bernd" got tired of the brothel system where price was negotiated, dark lighting, pressure sales and the workers bodies were hidden by clothing. Starting out in his basement he opened the first FKK club with his own system. Women were totally nude, the club had normal lighting, prices and services were set Above all service was based on quality and customer satisfaction. Bernd's main customer base were local business men. The club is located in a small village in his basement. He charged an entry fee which included all you could drink beer, alcohol and snacks. Women were paid a flat fee for a session which averages about 30 minutes. The concept caught on and soon the club took over the entire home.

As the years went by numerous other clubs opened and used similar terms such as Sauna Club or FKK Club. The main difference is all the clubs offered a sauna but FKK clubs meant the women were totally nude.

Years ago the clubs were not tourist friendly and one had to speak some German to enter. Today some clubs still limit visitors and forbid entry to some guests. Tour providers have opened many doors to tourists and convinced clubs that foreign visitors were another form of income. Guests are picked up from major airports, transported to the clubs and then to a hotel in the evening. Tours were provided in the English language as well as Japanese. Tour packages came in 6 or 8 day tours and visited 10-12 clubs during the duration. A guide is provided to the guests who explains rules, culture and history of the clubs in their own.

In spa town of Aachen, men may go window-shopping for sex; they can have unlimited sex with as many girls they liked for 99€ at a “flat-rate” brothel in Berlin; or they can visit Pascha, an eight-story “mega-bordello” in Cologne. Prostitutes in Germany all work freelance — instead of being paid a salary, they rent rooms from brothel owners who sometimes still do not question their health or see proof of insurance. The city of Stuttgart is home to high-class brothel Paradise, where girls were required to be completely naked at all times while men walked around in bath robes.

FKK Saunaclubs are very popular in Germany (and also in Austria and Switzerland). The guests pay entry fee (50-150€) and got several services for their money. The most commons services are: solarium, sauna cabin, bar, infrared cabin, showers. The most of Saunaclubs offer erotic or sexual services as well, from porn movies to private sex with girls.

Brothels, FKK & Sauna Clubs in Bochum

  • Sauna Club Arabella , Lohrheidestr. 63, Bochum
Open 10:00 - 24:00. Phone 02327-32 82 93
Price: 1 fuck = 60 € (1/2 hour), € 2 fucks = 90 , 3 fucks = 110 €
Ladies present themselves completely naked in the club and most allow french kissing.
  • Pauschalclub, Dieselstraße 37, 44805 Bochum
Open 11-23:00. Phone 0234/89 36 288
At over 600m ² you expect every day 9 to 12 hot top girls from all over the world. Once you have paid admission you do not talk about money. Pay once, have fun with all the girls as often as you want. Buffet, drinks, a sauna ...
All inclusive 3-hour ticket € 99.99 & Day ticket € 149.99. In Pauschalclub they show a porn movie in the main lobby, and another one in the large (and mostly unused) group fuck room. Upstairs they have a self-service area with meat, soup and non-alcoholic drinks. Here you can watch sports. There's smoking in the main lobby, but not upstairs. The rooms and girls' showers are in the second floor, so if you are waiting for a particular girl, it's best to wait there and then follow her downstairs.The girls wear mostly lingerie; Sunday is no-pants-day, apparently to celebrate Lord's Day. All girls have to offer dick sucking without condom; fucking is only with condom. I didn't see or experience any french kissing. The house requires that the sessions on the room are no longer than 20 minutes.
  • Solid Gold Bochum, Gussstahlstrasse 31 44793 Bochum
  • Club / Studio Pauschalclub Bochum, Dieselstrasse 37 44805 Bochum
  • Club / Studio Club Freude39, Freudenbergstrasse 39 44809 Bochum
  • Club / Studio Club Arabella, Lohrheidestrasse 63 44866 Bochum
  • Working Girl Rubensbella, Wattenscheider Hellweg 44869 Bochum
  • Kontaktbar El Brasi, Hattinger Strasse 746 44879 Bochum

Partytreffs, Pauschalclubs & Swingers Clubs in Germany

Partytreffs and Pauschalclubs are a variation on partner-swapping swing clubs with (sometimes, but not always) paid prostitutes in attendance, as well as 'amateur' girls and couples. Single men pay a flat-rate entrance charge of about 50 to 150 euros, which includes food, drink and unlimited sex sessions, with the added twist that these are performed in the open in full view of all the guests. Ladies normally pay a lower entrance fee than men or no entrance fee at all.

Erotic Massage Parlors

Where to find Massage Parlours in Bochum

  • Tantramassage NRW Casa, Maischützenstraße 25, Bochum
Tel:+49 234 68729930 This place has some quite hot looking girls offering tantric massage.

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Transsexuals / Shemales

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Many transexual who work as a prostitutes in Germany come from Southern European South American countries. Cheapest transgirls in Germany usually work at the Laufhaus Brothels and sex with them cost an average of 50€ per 20-30 minutes. Then there are trannies who work at the private flats. Average cost for sex is usually 80-150€ for half hour or 120-200€ for one hour. At Pascha in Cologne and Crazy Sexy in Frankfurts redlight district there are whole floors reserved only for trans prostitutes.

Where to find Transexuals in Bochum

  • Ralfs Kontaktbar, Rottstr. 16
Men 20 €, women € 10, TV and TS 10 €, Couples 20 €. Included are all soft drinks, including beer, wine and champagne. Check out Ralfs Kontaktbar for transexuals who visit there occasionally.

Gay and Lesbian

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Indoor Cruising & Erotic Shops

  • Ralfs Kontaktbar, Rottstr. 16 Bochum
  • El Brasi Filmclub, Hattinger. Str. 746 Bochum
  • Erotikshop Wolf, Bongardstrasse 2 Bochum

Gay Clubs, Bars and Parties

  • COXX, Ehrenfeld Straße 2, 44789 Bochum
Old corner Hattinger Str. Convivial atmosphere, mostly gay, open from 20-3 Clock
  • Freibad, Clemensstraße 2, 44789 Bochum
One of the biggest gay pubs in Bochum, very good for kontaktaufnahme, open 18-3 Clock
  • FreiRaum Café, Alleestraße 54, 44793 Bochum
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  • Orlando, Alte Hattinger Straße 31, 44789 Bochum
Open Mon-Sun 10-1 clock, informal atmosphere, very much student audience
  • Ralf Kontaktbar, Rottstraße 16, 44793 Bochum
Meeting place for young and old, heteros and homos, Active and Passive. Each we offer exciting entertainment, Gangbang Party, to group sex and tingling couple days.
  • BO YS, Wallbaumweg 108 , 44894 Bochum
The party for gays and girlfriends, every 1st Saturday of the month in Langendreer railway station.
  • Frivole Lounge P 3, August-Bebel-Platz 2, 44866 Bochum
In the P 3 will meet a group of erotic and frivolitätsbegeisterten couples, singles, male and female. On Thursdays there is always a bi party with horny stallions, mares hot, and other exciting TV, Ts and DWTS.
  • Stargate Gay Club Disco, Hans Böckler road 10-12 , 44787 Bochum
One of the most longest standing gay clubs far and wide! Every Friday and Saturday and eve of public holidays horny parties. Great music, nice people! Only on the first Saturday of the month there straight crowd, but which is absolutely tolerant!

Gay Cruising, Toilets and Glory Holes

  • Railway Museum, Dr.-C.-Otto-Straße 191, 44879 Bochum
The parking lot on the left, just before it goes up the mountain to eat.
  • Toilet at the marketplace Bochum-Linden, Hattinger Street, 44866 Bochum
A new Glory Hole is available again.
  • Toilet at the marketplace Gerthe, Marketplace, 44807 Bochum
Open 09:00 - 18:00 clock.
  • Parking at the end of Porschestraße, Porschestraße, 44809 Bochum
Cruising in Porsche road: At the end of the Porsche road to the parking and side stripes motorists and truck drivers beat! Moreover, in the West-Park located right next!
  • Ruhrpark - Parking MediTherme / AGATE Hotel, Kohlleppelsweg 45 , 44791 Bochum
After nightfall Cruiser meet at the parking lot of the last lap traffic. After 23 clock (Sunday 21 clock) it is quiet (spas-circuit). Mixed age. Warning: weekend disco!
  • Werner Teiche / Hapener Teiche, 44894 Bochum
At the parking area to the ponds at the Werner Werner Str. (Right next to the entrance to the Ruhr Park) cute gay and bi's meet after dark in the car.


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In the past few years BDSM has got a pretty bad reputation, but the basic principles can be extremely liberating and in the long run if you engage with it, turn you on in a way that you would never even have thought about. The fact that the standard media representation of BDSM is of something seedy and weird and sometimes make it feel like a taboo.

"But if girl take the reins it can actually increase their sexual confidence and sense of agency, while giving men a break from having to be 'on top', psychologically as well as literally which is the standard dynamic for most lovers. The trick is to have an open mind to sexuality, obviously anything which causes harm to your loved one or yourself is not good, but we're all humans and exploring the parts that make us a little different is what can make a hugely beneficial relationship.

Germany has some of the most exceptional fetish practices that are often only found on Japan.

Sexual Services for Women

A comparatively small number of male prostitutes in Germany offer sexual services to females, usually in the form of escort services, meeting in hotels. Usual cost for evening with a male escort is 100-600€. Some of the male escorts also offer weekly rates such as 2000-6000€. Most male escorts in Germany come from Southern European countries, but there are some real Germans too.

In Germany, somewhere there are around 20 escort agencies cater to women. You can see the pictures of the men online: age, height, physique. Some of the men also list preferences: oral, anal, group sex. Some men set limits and some do not. Most female customers are from early 30s through mid-50s, and are normal women. Most female customers like the feeling of being loved and not just sex like most male johns.

Sex Shops and Adult Stores

If you don’t feel like visiting or cannot find any local sex shops in Bochum, you can easily order adult products from Online Sex Shop. Most Adult Shops (also called: Sex Shop, Erotic Shop, Adult Shop) in Germany have wide selection of dildos, butt plugs, fleshlights, sex films, condoms and other sex related items. Some of the adult stores also have a Adult Cinema (called: Sex Kino in Germany) or Adult Cruising Arcade attached to the sex shop. Most of these premises are used by straight, bi sexual and gay men, but occasionally there can be women on these places. Adult Arcades often have cinemas showing porn movies, private booths, gloryholes, darkrooms, sex slings and other kinky things.

Where to find Adult Shops and Sex Cinemas in Bochum

  • BDSM Möbel Shop Evil Toys, Alsenstraße 3, 44789 Bochum
BDSM Shop Evil Toys for unusual BDSM and bondage gear and BDSM / SM BDSM furniture studios and private.
  • El Brasi, Hattinger Straße 746, 44879 Bochum
Opening times of the El Brasi: Monday, Tuesday, Thursday from 18:00 clock, Wednesdays from 16:00 clock. Opening times of the video library: Monday - Thursday: 10:00 - 24:00 clock, Friday - Saturday: 10:00 AM - 1:00 clock. Clock Specials: Every Tuesday and Wednesday meeting place for Bi - Lesbian - Gay & Shemale. Wednesdays from 18:00 clock Bi - Movies in Cinema.
  • Life Erotica, Rottstraße 16, 44793 Bochum
Open Mon-Thu 10-24 clock, Fri + Sat 10-1 Clock, Sun 12-1 clock

Escort Services & Agencies

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There are many beautiful escorts to choose from in Bochum. If you are not attracted to the street whores, brothels or Red-light districts, you can always place a call to individual escort or escort agency which will assign a girl to you for 100-250€ an hour. You can fuck escorts at your place or in their place as most escorts work from the private flats or hotels. Escort agencies usually provide a room also if you need a one. Most Bochum escorts and escort agencies have their advertisements placed on internet and some advertise on newspapers also.


Bochum has about 25 hotels to choose from and best ones are Ramada & Claudius hotels. Usually you are able to bring guests to your room as long you do not make noise or cause a trouble. It is always more convenient to choose a room near the Bochum brothels]].

Stay Safe

The cities within the Ruhr area are amoung the safest in Germany. Since the Ruhr is until now not a tourist region, it is not in the focus of pickpockets. But it is a good idea to take the usual precautions. Don't leave you camera unattended, don't flash around a fat wallet. Since many citizens have a migration background, the acceptance of strangers is high and the possibility of encountering racism or other prejudices is low.

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