Jakarta Sex Guide advises where to find sex, working girls, prostitution, street hookers, brothels, red-light districts, prostitutes, erotic massage parlors, strip clubs and escorts in Jakarta, Indonesia.
Jakarta is the capital and largest city of Indonesia, located on the northwest of the island of Java. Jakarta is the country's economic, cultural and political centre and the most populous city not only in Indonesia but in Southeast Asia as a whole.
- 1 Sex Scene and Prostitution
- 2 Jakarta Female Escorts
- 3 Red Light Districts
- 4 Prostitutes and Sex Workers
- 5 Street Hookers
- 6 Adult Locations
- 7 Strip Clubs and Striptease
- 8 Brothels and Sex Clubs
- 9 Erotic Massage Parlors
- 10 Karaoke and KTVs
- 11 Escort Services and Agencies
- 12 Swinger Clubs
- 13 Sex Shops and Adult Stores
- 14 Love Hotels and Short Time Hotels
- 15 Nightclubs and Bars
- 16 Gay and Lesbian
- 17 Other Adult Services
- 18 Live Sex Cams
- 19 Dating
- 20 Transsexuals and Shemales
- 21 Sexual Services for Women
- 22 Male Escorts
- 23 Sleeping and Girl Friendly Hotels
- 24 Stay Safe
- 25 See Also
Sex Scene and Prostitution
Prostitution in Indonesia is legally considered a "crime against decency/morality", although it is widely practiced, tolerated and regulated. Some women are financially motivated to become prostitutes, while others may be forced by friends, relatives or strangers. Traditionally, they have met with customers in entertainment venues or special prostitution complexes. Although prostitution is illegal in Indonesia — a country home to the world’s largest Muslim population, prostitution is thriving.
There are dozen small bars on Jalan Pelatehan. D`s Place, Top Gun and My Bar were the most popular bars. English language is no problem because the owners of the bars target their places mainly to the expat community. Blok M starts to be crowded 8pm and before that it is probably to early. Most of the freelance girls do not arrive earlier than 9 or 10pm. On any given day you will find at least 100 Indonesian girls there to meet potential customers. Most of the girls are not so attractive but it`s possible to find a gem or two. Girls are used to foreigners and most of them can follow a basic conversation in English.
Prices for ST or an over-night action vary greatly and depend on your age, appearance and experience. Some girls wants to have 500,000 IDR (US$43) but should be easily negotiated down to 300,000 IDR (US$26) in most cases. If that is too much for your budget, you can always have a quick sex in a brothel tent by the train tracks costing you only a around US$5.
There are lots of freelancer prostitutes in the Jakarta nightclubs, especially in Northern Jakarta, Blok M area and Hotel bars.
White expat males are called Bhule in Indonesia and local girls love Bhules (western guys). You can date an extremely good looking girls in Indonesia and have sex with them for free and you do not need to be a player or very good looking dude.
Jakarta Female Escorts
There are not too many escorts in Jakarta who are advertising their services online, but it's getting more popular all the time.
Red Light Districts
There are three main Red-light districts in Jakarta and they are called Kalijodo, Cipinang and Bongkaran. street whores, Brothels, Erotic massage parlours and escort services are offered in the areas and you can also find sex workers from the bars and clubs in the area.
- Jakarta’s largest red-light district of Kalijodo, located on the border of West Jakarta and North Jakarta, which is probably the oldest site in Indonesia, as it has been around since the 18th century. The Kalijodo red-light district, holds the livelihoods of at least 5,000 people — from hoodlums to sex workers, brothel owners to waiters, and cigarette and food vendors to local residents.
- According to local residents, prostitution has been in Cipinang since as early as 1993, centering in a park near the Jatinegara station. There used to be only transgendered prostitutes there.The prostitutes charge customers around Rp 50,000 (US$5) for a short time in a small tent beside the railways near the Jatinegara station, or Rp 250,000 in nearby lodges.
- Infamous red-light district is Bongkaran in Tanah Abang, Central Jakarta — only few meters from the Tanah railway station. Bongkaran area alone is estimated to have at least 700 girls.
- Blok M, if you're in a low budget but you wanted to get laid, just grab a taxi and tell the taxi driver to take you to Jalan Falatehan (Falatehan Street), just about 200 Meters from the traffic lights with Ambhara hotel and a Plaza on it side. You can find working girls from most nightclubs and bars.
Prostitutes and Sex Workers
One of the main reasons for a prostitute to enter the business is the attractiveness of earning money quickly. The Jakarta Post reported that high-end prostitutes in Jakarta could earn Rp 15 million - Rp 30 million (USD 1,755 to 3,510) monthly, able to charge more than Rp 3 million (USD 350) per session for their services. Those entering prostitution for money come from both middle-class and poor families.
Another major cause is coercion (see "Forced prostitution" for general discussion). Young women are offered employment opportunities in major cities, then raped and forced to prostitute themselves while paying money to their pimps.
- Clubs in North Jakarta always have prostitutes (except Churchill Bar and maybe K7), usually a combination of freelance prostitutes and girls under contracts.
There are basically 3 areas where you will find freelance prostitutes from bars in Jakarta:
- Blok M, also called Jalan Falatehan, is where American and English older expats go. Not all the bars there have prostitutes (Sportmans and One Tree Bar are ayam-free for instance), but most do. The girls there are mostly freelance, sometimes with a boyfriend pimp. Near Jalan Falatehan, you also have what we call "Little Tokyo", which is an even larger red light district than Blok M, only that this one caters more exclusively to the entertainment needs of Korean and Japanese people. There are dozens of bars and karaokes there, but apart from the above-mentioned nationalities, few people go there.
- North Jakarta and the city's peripherical areas (Taman Anggrek, Daan Mogot, etc.) where most local people will go in the one-stop entertainment nightclubs (with karaoke, massage parlour, bars, clubs, spa and sometimes casinos all under one roof) or other local curiosities such as massage bars, panti pijat, tempat dugem. In these places, the girls are usually under contract with the management, and though they get a correct salary for indonesian standards, they have very poor perspectives. There are also many high-class prostitutes and escort girls in Kota (the most beautiful girls are not to be found in Blok M, nor in Hotel bars, but in places like Alexis, Golden Crown, Malioboro, Sun City, which also "import" girls from China, Thailand, Russia, Uzbekistan, and even Spain). They earn comfortable salaries and they often have some regular customers who pay them cars, houses, etc. Their salaries can be over 10,000$/month for the top prostitutes.
- Hotel bars such as B.A.T.S in Hotel Shangri-La, Tiga Puluh in Hotel Le Meridien, or CJ in Hotel Mulia, for travellers, with also quite many expats. Girls there can be very interesting sometimes, with fun, smart personalities, yet obsessed with money, Blackberries and Louis Vuitton. Many can be quite good party-friends, especially if you want to go party some place else, since most of the times, the same girls will move from BATS after it closes to Top Gun (Blok M) or to Stadium. Normal bars and clubs are geographically more limited to the center : Menteng, Plaza Indonesia, Kuningan, and South Jakarta: Gatot Subroto, Kemang, Senayan. In these places, if you dress appropriately and look ok, you should not have too much trouble meeting ladies. There use to be a place to meet girls for free play called Red Square, but it closed down.
- Street prostitutes in Jakarta can be easily found standing along streets near the Presidential Palace and the National Police Headquarters, or waiting for customers at bars inside lavish hotels and nightclubs.
- You can search along Jalan Hayam Wuruk or also called the Kota Area. Usually a dense area is large Mango street after and before the Dunkin Donut shop. You just slow the pace vehicle, and the girls will soon approach you and negotiate. For the price range is Rp. 300k-400k. Provide condoms alone for the sake of safety and choose a comfortable and safe hotel.
You can find many great adult entertainment premises in Jakarta. Cheapest sex can be purchased from the street, but this is not always safe. Hiring an escort is easy, and many of these girls operate all over the Jakarta in private apartments. Sex can be also bought from the strip clubs, brothels and massage salons.
Strip Clubs and Striptease
Brothels and Sex Clubs
Check out also Jakarta red-light districts from above.
Erotic Massage Parlors... further results
There are some great massage parlours in Jakarta and salons are often attached hotels, karaoke bars and clubs. It is your choice wether you want just a relaxation massage or a Erotic massage with a Happy Ending. If you want to fuck the massage girls later, you can always ask their number and arrange a date later and have sex with them for affordable price such as $US30.
- Other popular massage chains with many locations in Jakarta are called My Place and Delta Spa. There are possibilities to get some extra services at these venues. Also at Kimochi Spa you can get a full service and drinks for about US$50. Melawi, Travel and Classic also offer 1 hour full services for about same price and girls can be also rented overnight and all-days also.
Massage and Body Rubs
Most of the escorts in Jakarta also will be ready to give you erotic and sensual massage. You can see the list of escort agencies below.
Karaoke and KTVs
There are few good KTV and Karaoke sex club in Jakarta.
Escort Services and Agencies... further results
You can find many different escort agencies operating in Jakarta. Usually you need to pay a little bit more if you hire an girl this way, but the prices are still quite affordable.
Partner swapping is not very common in Jakarta and most swingers you will find are tourists.
Sex Shops and Adult Stores
If you don’t feel like visiting or cannot find any local sex shops in Jakarta, you can easily order adult products from Online Sex Shop.
Sex shops in Jakarta:
- Hong Kong Toys, Tel:085782220-818. Roxy Square.
Love Hotels and Short Time Hotels
There are good hotels in Jakarta for one night stands and spending time with sex workers.
Nightclubs and Bars
There are many nice nightclubs and bars in Jakarta where you can try your luck to find sex for free.
Gay and Lesbian
Gay modeling in internet is getting more popular all the time and it's a big market alongside with gay porn. You can watch gay live sex also in Jakarta as long as you are connected to internet.
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Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people in Indonesia will face legal challenges and prejudices not experienced by non-LGBT residents. Traditional mores disapprove of homosexuality and cross-dressing, which impacts public policy.
Other Adult Services
There are no BDSM clubs in Jakarta as it is very religious country and such places would be soon be banned. However there are Escorts who can do different role-plays and fetishes as you wish if payed enough.
Live Sex Cams
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Dating in Jakarta can be a bit tricky due to cultural differences, so your best bet is to sign up for a dating site before your trip so you can meet a few locals ahead of time. AdultFriendFinder.com, for example, lets you meet local members in Jakarta and get to know them on a personal basis before you arrive. Take advantage of features like live chat rooms and member webcams so you know who you are chatting with before arranging a face-to-face meeting. Since time in your destination may be limited, get to know each other’s desires beforehand so when you do meet, you can skip the awkward introductions and start having some real fun.
Transsexuals and Shemales
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According to local residents, prostitution has been in Cipinang since as early as 1993, centering in a park near the Jatinegara station. There used to be only transvestite and ladyboy prostitutes there. Taman Lawang red light district is also known for sexy Ladyboy and transexual prostitutes. HIV rates are as high as 34% have been reported among trans gender sex workers in Jakarta by NGOs. It is believed that transgirls who advertise online and work from private apartments or hotels, are much cheaper charging somewhere around three times more than t-girls working on the street.
Sexual Services for Women
It's easy to find local and tourist men to have sex with. Good spots are touristic night clubs.
Sleeping and Girl Friendly Hotels
- HOTEL TRAVEL
- Nice hotel within walking distance from the Sparks. It doesn't have the futuristic look like the Sparks but an in-house massage parlor with plenty of girls to choose from.
- Address : Jalan Mangga Besar VIII / 21
- PRINSEN PARK HOTEL
- Good location just in front of the Lokasari Plaza with plenty of hangouts nearby and lots of girls roaming the area. This is a good choice if you travel on a budget but the rooms are still okay (and large).
Most hotels in Jakarta are girl-friendly, except for some family hotels.
See also: Global list of girl friendly hotels
Strict gun control laws make Jakarta safer, but theft and robbery are real problems. Even these appear to have improved in recent years, but still take care. Violence is low, and most criminal acts are done by stealth or intimidation rather than lethal force. It is rare for even serious injuries to occur during these situations, although there are exceptions.
During the rainy season (December, January, and February), lower parts of Jakarta (mostly those to the north) are often flooded.
There is a law against smoking at public places in Jakarta, and the smoker can (in theory) be fined up to US$5,000. You may see the signs threatening a fine (denda) of Rp 50 million or 6 months jail for smoking, although that law seems not to be enforced, as locals still smoke everywhere on the street and even in local buses, as anywhere in Indonesia. It's generally prohibited to smoke, however, inside shops, offices, and air-conditioned buildings generally. If in doubt, you can ask locals: Boleh merokok?
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