Kuala Lumpur

KL Sentral and the Kuala Lumpur skyline at dusk

Kuala Lumpur Sex Guide (KL Sex Guide) advises where to find sex, working girls, prostitution, street hookers, brothels, red-light districts, prostitutes, erotic massage parlors, strip clubs and escorts in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

Kuala Lumpur, or simply called KL by locals, is the federal capital and the largest city in Malaysia. Literally meaning muddy river confluence in Malay, Kuala Lumpur has grown from a small sleepy Chinese tin-mining village to a bustling metropolis of around 6.5 million (city-proper population of 1.8 million) in just 150 years. Kuala Lumpur is cultural melting pot with some of the world's cheapest 5-star hotels, impressive shopping districts, even better food and some of nature's wonders just an hour away, making this a dynamic city with much to offer.

Kuala Lumpur Sex Scene and Prostitution

Prostitution is illegal in Malaysia. Demand for prostitution has created a problem of people trafficking from China and other nearby countries. Sexual services, however, are widely available and laws banning prostitution remain largely unenforced.

Kuala Lumpur is a dynamic place and a nice size. It is quite developed and safe with wonderful parks. Indians, Chinese and Malays all inhabit this pleasurable city. This would be a fantastic city to hang out in if it wasn’t for the exoberant alcohol tax. KL is very active city for mongers.

The Malay Girls

Malaysian law is pretty strict on native Malay muslims drinking, as a result it is unlikely to encounter Malay girls at night. That said, plenty of Chinese and Indian girls do indulge. Malay girls have darker skin than other ethnic groups on the peninsula and many are extremely attractive and feminine. If you want to meet a nice Malay woman, your best bet is Borneo as East Malaysia is considerably more conservative. One positive about Kuala Lumpur is that English is widely understood due to the ethnic mix. Kuala Lumpur is also great place to meet some stunning Chinese girls, many of whom are independent and well-educated. KL is also home to many are Filipinas and Vietnamese women. While many work here legitimately, others come to the city to work as prostitutes.

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Kuala Lumpur Female Escorts

As in many other Asian big capital cities, some Kuala Lumpur escorts have also started to advertise their services in internet.

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Red Light Districts

Kuala Lumpur red-light areas are big sex centers. Many tourists, expats and locals visit these district to have some adult fun.

Here are listed three main red-light districts in Kuala Lumpur to find sex:

  • Jalan Bukit Bintang - Red light district is a place for sex workers to find business gentlemen.
  • Chow Kit - is known for its red-light district as well as for its nightly gathering of ladyboys.

See also: Global list of red-light districts

Prostitutes and Sex Workers

In Kuala Lumpur, lower class brothels and prostitutes are mostly located in Jalan Alor, Jalan Hicks and Jalan Bukit Bintang all in the Bukit Bintang area, and in Jalan Thambipillay, in the Brickfields area. These, as well as the infamous red-light district of Lorong Haji Taib and Chow Kit is the hub for prostitution in Kuala Lumpur.

Higher class prostitutes or call girls (sometimes also called escorts) normally ply their trade at nightspots in Jalan Bukit Bintang, Jalan Sultan Ismail, Jalan Horley and Jalan Imbi. With the influx of prostitutes from China, Thailand, Indonesia, Myanmar and the Philippines, the local girls are getting the run for their money. Of all these foreigner women, those from China (locally called China Girls or China Dolls) seem to have entrepreneurial advantage.

There is a huge disparity in the earnings of a high class prostitute and a lower end hooker in Kuala Lumpur. A high class call girl with a regular clients would be able to earn as much as RM2,000 per night, or even more. She often also works as a Guest Relations Officer (GRO) at an exclusive karaoke lounge to solicit for clients and earn a salary with tips as well. However, life is different for hookers operating at Lorong Haji Taib or Chow Kit. They generally earn just enough for the basic living necessities. They would be lucky to earn RM50 a night. Some supplement their income working as GROs for tips in budget karaoke lounges locally called papaya farms.

Prostitutes in Malaysia not only ply their trade in nightspots and hotels but also double up as masseuse (locally referred to as massage girls) working at massage parlours, spas, salons and health centres in the city centre.

Street Hookers & Street Sex

Jalan Bukit Bintang Streetwalker prostitute prices: 20-70RM for Sex session. This is about $7-25 USD. They will take you to short time hotels to have fast sex. Be aware of belongings and STD's. You can find also ladyboys from Jalan Bukit Bintang.

Street walkers in Kuala Lumpur know all the short-time hotels near by. You can go with her to the motel and rent a room for an hour or two to have sex time.

Check out: Malay Sex Phrasebook & Hindi Sex Phrasebook

Go Go Bars & Pickup Locations

Go-Go bars in Kuala Lumpur are not that usual or same style as in Thailand but you can still find some similarities with them.

Here are some Go-go and pick-up bars in Kuala Lumpur:

  • Beach Club Café, Kuala Lumpur, 97 Jalan P Ramlee, tel: +60 3 2166 9919
The girls at the Beach Club are mainly Fillo's, Vietnam & Chinese. Price is very expensive trade for sex. The girls are totally friendly and are eager to please. Many are very beautiful.
Also one of the things about the place is that they don’t let the ladyboys in the club, so you can be pretty confident when drunk that hot Thai girl doesn’t have a spring roll waiting for you under that miniskirt. Be careful right outside, though, they’ll be waiting for you as soon as you leave the club.


Some of the escorts in Kuala Lumpur offer also striptease services. You can negotiate the specific deal if you want bikini dancing, pole dancing, topless dancing or nude dancing. Not all of the escorts or sex workers are open to this, especially if you have a big group watching.

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Freelance Bars

Freelancer bars in Kuala Lumpur are kind of similar than other bars with prostitutes. In these places you still need to pay something if you want to take a girl out. Freelancers work usually by themselves without being employed by any pimps or escort agencies.

Here are some bars in Kuala Lumpur where to find sex worker girls:

  • Thai Bistro, Tel:603-2163-8388. Wisma Tong Ah 1 Jalan Perak. BAR FINE FREE. GIRL FINE 300 Ringgit
  • Gypsy Bar, Tel:061-365-6113. No 33 Changkat Bukit Bintang. GIRL FINE 300 Ringgit
  • Champion Night Club, Tel:030-9221-1333. Lot Pt 18 1st. Floor Jalan Gelang off Jalan Sungai Bessi. GIRL FINE 350 Ringgit
  • Inspirasi Ferman, Across The Street From Champion. GIRL FINE 300 Ringgit
  • Club De Vegas (In The Infinity Wellness Building), Tel:603-2141-3888. 3 Jalan Imbi, Wilayah Persekutuan. GIRL FINE 350 Ringgit

KTV Karaoke Bars

Asian karaoke establishments (karaoke boxes) are often fronts for so-called gentlemen's clubs, where men are paying for female hostesses to drink, sing, and dance with them. There happens a lot of flirting with the working girls and many times it's possible to take a girl out from these venues. Girls are wearing sexy clothes and play with you. Usually there are no places to have sex in KTVs with the hostesses but who really can know for sure what is happening inside these private singing rooms. At least you are able to negotiate about taking the girl back to your hotel room or apartment.

If you are not sure what to do in a KTV you can always ask the hostesses or the manager how does everything work there. Especially if you look western or wealthy person they are very happy to explain you what services are possible and how much everything costs.

Here are some KTV bars in Kuala Lumpur:

  • Rich City KTV, Tel:03-9200-9510. Lot 500-1-1 Jalan Tun Razak, Wilayah Persekutuan. GIRL FINE 100 Ringgit
  • New Club KTV, Taman Maluri, Cheras. GIRL FINE 300 Ringgit
  • Emico KTV Lounge, Tel:039-221-3218. No. 149 2nd Floor, Lorong Loke Yew off Jalan Sungai Besi. GIRL FINE 300 Ringgit
  • Bintang Palace KTV, Tel:603-2143-2222. 1 Jalan Walter Grenier, Off Jalan Imbi. GIRL FINE 500 Ringgit
  • Da Boss Club KTV / Jay Jay Disco, Tel:03-9223-3888. Ground Floor, Wisma Pan Dynasty, Jalan Loke Yew. BAR FINE 350 Ringgit
  • Village Cafe Ktv, Lorong Berjaya 2. BAR FINE 200 Ringgit


If clubbing is your thing, Zouk is the place, with multiple clubs and lots of hot chicks, go on the weekend with your crew and get bottle service. There are also lots of expat girls living in Kuala Lumpur.


Kuala Lumpur has not real brothels what you have might seen in Germany or Nevada. (Erotic) massage parlors are considered as brothels in Malaysia.

Anyway you can find different kind of sex places from red-light district areas. Brothels there might be very small and not very cozy ones.

Erotic Massage Parlors

Massage girls Jalan Bukit Bintang

Kuala Lumpur Erotic massage parlors, also called as Spas, Salons or Health centers, also have turn into a big part of Kuala Lumpur’s adult entertainment and sex business, especially erotic massage is very popular now days. Male customers are very interested in having sensual massage, nuru massage, 4hand massage, prostate massage and so on. Sometimes erotic massage parlors might be even called as barbershops, but this name is more often used in China.

Because of the interest in erotic massages, women from China and neighbouring Thailand, Philippines, Indonesia and Cambodia arrive at KL to be effective in Spas, health centres, or similar establishments. These girls, type in the country with social visit Visas to locate easy employment as “massage girls” (as the local call masseuse). Despite their name, some massage centres aren’t greater than brothels.

In Kuala Lumpur, massage parlors which provide erotic massage may also be present in some 3-5 star hotels in KL, or even in commercial centres near KL, for example, Subang Jaya, Sri Petaling, Puchong, Ampang, Pandan Indah, Bandar Tun Razak, Cheras, Damansara Utama, certain parts of Petaling Jaya and Kepong.

It is relatively easy to find these erotic massage centers in Kuala Lumpur. You need to a walk along Pudu road in KL and you’ll notice shoplots displaying corny signboards including “New Girl Massage Kuala Lumpur” or “Friendly Budget Massage”.


Price for erotic massage in Kuala Lumpur depends of your negotiation skills and sexual treatments wanted.

  • for sauna and massage: RM 66 to 93 (40-45 mins)
  • for extended session of 1 hour: RM 14-20 extra
  • for HJ (hand job): RM 80 to 100
  • for BJ (blow job): RM 100 to 150
  • for FJ (foot job): RM 150 A full package with sauna and FJ will therefore cost about RM 230 or just over US$100.

Massage parlor locations in Kuala Lumpur

Spa fines are mostly about 350 ringgits unless it's other said in the list.

  • A1 Executive health Spa (Alpha Genesis Hotel), Tel:603-2141-2000. No. 45, Tengkat Tong Shin, Bukit Bintang
  • Saboon Health Spa (Seasons Tower), Tel:032-141-6733. Jalan 1/77 off Jalan Changkat Thambi Dollah Sections 67
  • Fuji Spa, Tel:030-9221-1333. Lot Pt 18 1st. Floor Jalan Gelang off Jalan Sungai Bessi
  • Golden City Spa (Radius International hotel), Tel:032-144-3818. 5th Floor Changkat Bukit Bintang
  • Green Elephant Executive Health Spa, Tel:032-144-0378. B2-6 Basement Level 2 Sungai Wang Plaza, Julan Sultan Ismail
  • New World Spa (In Cititel Hotel), Tel:603-2282-8008. Mid Valley City, Lingkaran Syed Putra

Massage & Body Rubs

Most of the sex workers on the Kuala Lumpur streets and bars offer massage service as well if you ask them. Anyway there is no guarantee of the quality of the massage if she is not working as a massage escort or in the massage parlor. Many of the prostitutes in KL knows surprisingly well how to give erotic and sensuous massage to the customer.

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Escort Service & Agencies

Kuala Lumpur escort services and agencies in internet are getting more popular all the time.

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Transsexuals / Ladyboys

Kathoeys (or "ladyboys") in front of the bar.

Where to pick up transsexuals in Kuala Lumpur?

The best spots are Lorong Haji Taib, Lorong Haji Taib 1, Lorong Haji Taib 2, Lorong Haji Taib 3, Lorong Haji Taib 4, and Jalan Sri Amar. Collectively, these roads-of-sin form a grid in an area called Haji Taib. The enclave is just 10 to 15 fifteen minutes’ walk from Plaza Hotel on Jalan Raja Laut and also De First Inn at the Jalan Raja Laut/Lorong Haji Taib junction. A handful of gaudy, cheap bars enhance the sleazy atmosphere here. Pub New Jingle Bell on Jalan Raja Laut/Jalan Sri Amar junction; Nan Sing Disco Lounge and Diamond Musical Hall, both on Lorong Haji Taib 1 are hotspots for transsexual GROs.

Chow Kit is also known for its red-light district as well as for its nightly gathering of transwomen.

Golden Rule Number One: if you ask how much and she offers an irresistible price, never accept in glee and follow her immediately up to her flat. Enquire further whether there are any other charges. Is the price inclusive of the room? Are condoms free? Are tissues free? Are towels supplied without charge? Is there a hot shower?

Ladyboy bars and clubs:

  • Funteque
On top of The Ship Bukit Bintang. Drag show on Sat. It helps if you can understand Malay. Funny, and sexy. You'll want to stay until 3am and see what happens.

Transsexual Escorts

You can find ladyboy escorts in Kuala Lumpur advertising their services in internet. If you cannot find anyone online, you can always visit Chow Kit area.

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Kuala Lumpur Gay & Lesbian Sex Scene

Internationalisation of Kuala Lumpur has contributed to the growing acceptance of a discreet gay scene.

Gay Party

  • Blue Boy
50 Jln Sultan Ismail, Malaysia's oldest gay club, rolling on past its 2nd decade now. Small, friendly neighborhood place that gets completely packed on Fri and Sat nights. Main room has a bar and dance area. Second room has table seating. Decor is basically dim lighting. Crowd is mostly young Malay and their matt saleh (white) admirers.
  • MarketPlace
4A, Jln Yap Kwan Seng, Popular gay dance club on Sat nights. Cool view of Petronas Towers. Hot house beats. Rooftop chill-out space.

Gay Saunas and Bathhouses

Access is only for men.

  • Day Thermos Sauna, 40-6, Jalan Sultan Ismail
  • Kakiku, 109-2, Jalan Cerapu 1. Mo, Tu, We, Th, Fr: 05:00 p.m. - 12:00 a.m.; Sa, Su: 02:00 p.m. - 12:00 a.m.
  • Senses Sauna, 27-2 & 3 Jalan Sambanthan
  • OOPS! Kuala Lumpur, 27-1 Jalan Kampung Pandan
  • Chakran Sauna Kuala Lumpur, Jalan Padang Belia 22a
  • Mandi Manda, 31, Jalan 109E, Desa Business Park
  • Sentral Massage & Sauna, 41, Jalan Thambipillai, 1st Floor
  • OTOT² (Otot-Otot), 7a Jalan Ipoh Kechil, 2nd Floor

Gay Massages

  • Massage by Faruk, 4a , Jalan Pandan Indah 1/23a
  • I Yang Male Massage, Mo, Tu, We, Th, Fr, Sa, Su: 01:00 p.m. - 01:00 a.m.

Gay Cruising, Glory Holes and Parks

  • Central Market Parking
Mostly the young guys, but also the old ones when they feel horny.
  • Kota Raya Shopping Complex
Lots of hot guys all ages.
  • Bandar Tun Razak Swimming Pool
Mainly younger sexy men. Most Gay action is in the guys changing rooms (especially in the shower stalls), but some daring types will also cruise/flash within the actual pool!
  • Central Market, Jalan Hang Kasturi, Kuala Lumpur
Men pretending to pee at the urinals; guys hanging around outside the stalls; guys hanging around outside the entrance.
Mostly Malay, Indian and Chinese men.
  • Kuala Lumpur Plaza, Jalan Bukit Bintang, Kuala Lumpur
Sometimes lots of guys at the urinals.
  • Bintang Walk
This street is very cruisy all day, great for looking at hot men as well as cruising. After sunset sexy guys n are out in force. There are lots of out door cafes. Most hot guys hook up and go elsewhere.
  • Chin Woo Stadium
Most eye contact is in the showers or in the changing rooms upstairs. Sometimes if you click with a guy, you can get action in the toilet stalls. Some guys can be quite cruisy in the pool itself.
  • Taman Tasik Permaisuri
Lots of sexy guys in mixed age groups. There is sometimes action amongst the bushes beside the fence -- also behind the toilet block.
  • Ampang Park Shopping Centre, Jalan Ampang - Jalan Tun Razak junction, Kuala Lumpur
Sexy guys in all age groups. Toilets on the upper floors are best for action with anyone you pick up. No security!
  • Semua House
Chineses, Malays and Indians, mostly older men.
  • Hilton Hotel
Washroom in the gym complex is cruisy, plenty of guys naked and up for it. All sorts but some great sexy young guys.

Sexual Services for Women

There are many horny guys in Kuala Lumpur willing to have sex for free. Women just need to get in to some local bar to find one for free. There are also lots of male expats living in Kuala Lumpur if you are not that interested in Asian men.

Male Escorts

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Sex Shops & Adult Stores

Sex toys and adult related toys can be found from several street vendors. Also Cialis, Viagra and Kamagra can be bought from many Pharmacies.

Finding a real sex shop from the streets is unusual but you can order some toys or other adult stuff from online sex shops in internet.

Sleeping in Kuala Lumpur

Almost every hotel allows guests to their rooms. For hotels which using access cards for the lifts the security personnel will usually escort your female guest to your room after registering them. Part of the registration process requires your guest to correctly provide your room number and your name.

Certain hotels require you to come down to the lobby to pick up your guests.

See also: Global list of girl friendly hotels

Swinger Clubs

It's difficult to find official swinger clubs in Kuala Lumpur, but you will definitely find some swinging couples looking for other swingers in internet.


BDSM scene in Kuala Lumpur hasn't been found. There are only some escorts that do BDSM stuff in Kuala Lumpur. Malaysia is a strict Muslim country, so BDSM sex is not that openly discussed topic.

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Stay Safe

The crime rate is higher than in neighboring Singapore. Crimes towards tourists are usually restricted to bag-snatching, pickpocketing and petty theft. It is important to keep a close eye on valuable items. Theft is more common in crowded places, such as markets and on public transport. Generally, if you avoid deserted areas, get back to your hotel before midnight and use your common sense, you're unlikely to be assaulted. Homosexuality is a crime hence gay and lesbian tourists should be self-aware and careful.

Kuala Lumpur still have a fairly active gay scene and gay bashing is rarely heard of. However, same-sex relationships are a taboo subject and "Carnal intercourse against the order of nature" is punished by up to 20 years gaol and whipping (men only) under colonial era laws not usually enforced against consenting adult heterosexuals. Different states may also impose consecutive sharia law punishments of up to 3 years and six lashes against Muslims of all genders.

HIV prevalence was high among key affected and vulnerable populations. In 2009, HIV prevalence was 22.1% among injecting drug users, up from the 11% reported in 2007; 10.5% among female sex workers; 3.9% among men who have sex with men; and 9.3% among transgender persons. As of 2009, 0.06% of the 1,021,542 migrant workers screened for HIV were reported positive.

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