Kuala Lumpur Sex Guide (KL Sex Guide) advises where to find sex, dating, working girls, prostitution, street hookers, brothels, red-light districts, prostitutes, erotic massage parlors, strip clubs and escorts in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.
Kuala Lumpur, or simply called KL by locals, is the federal capital and the largest city in Malaysia. Literally meaning muddy river confluence in Malay, Kuala Lumpur has grown from a small sleepy Chinese tin-mining village to a bustling metropolis of around 6.5 million (city-proper population of 1.8 million) in just 150 years. Kuala Lumpur is cultural melting pot with some of the world's cheapest 5-star hotels, impressive shopping districts, even better food and some of nature's wonders just an hour away, making this a dynamic city with much to offer.
- 1 Sex Scene and Prostitution
- 2 Kuala Lumpur Female Escorts
- 3 Red Light Districts
- 4 Prostitutes and Sex Workers
- 5 Street Hookers
- 6 Adult Locations
- 7 Strip Clubs and Striptease
- 8 Brothels and Sex Clubs
- 9 Erotic Massage Parlors
- 10 Karaoke and KTVs
- 11 Escort Services and Agencies
- 12 Swinger Clubs
- 13 Sex Shops and Adult Stores
- 14 Love Hotels and Short Time Hotels
- 15 Nightclubs and Bars
- 16 Gay and Lesbian
- 17 Other Adult Services
- 18 Dating
- 19 Transsexuals and Shemales
- 20 Transsexual Escorts
- 21 Sexual Services for Women
- 22 Male Escorts
- 23 BDSM
- 24 Sleeping and Girl Friendly Hotels
- 25 Stay Safe
- 26 See Also
Sex Scene and Prostitution
Prostitution is illegal in Malaysia. Demand for prostitution has created a problem of people trafficking from China and other nearby countries. Sexual services, however, are widely available and laws banning prostitution remain largely unenforced.
Kuala Lumpur is a dynamic place and a nice size. It is quite developed and safe with wonderful parks. Indians, Chinese and Malays all inhabit this pleasurable city. This would be a fantastic city to hang out in if it wasn’t for the exoberant alcohol tax. KL is very active city for mongers.
The Malay Girls
Malaysian law is pretty strict on native Malay muslims drinking, as a result it is unlikely to encounter Malay girls at night. That said, plenty of Chinese and Indian girls do indulge. Malay girls have darker skin than other ethnic groups on the peninsula and many are extremely attractive and feminine. If you want to meet a nice Malay woman, your best bet is Borneo as East Malaysia is considerably more conservative. One positive about Kuala Lumpur is that English is widely understood due to the ethnic mix. Kuala Lumpur is also great place to meet some stunning Chinese girls, many of whom are independent and well-educated. KL is also home to many are Filipinas and Vietnamese women. While many work here legitimately, others come to the city to work as prostitutes.
See also: Kuala Lumpur Escorts
Kuala Lumpur Female Escorts
As in many other Asian big capital cities, some Kuala Lumpur escorts have also started to advertise their services in internet.
Red Light Districts
Kuala Lumpur red-light areas are big sex centers. Many tourists, expats and locals visit these district to have some adult fun.
Here are listed three main red-light districts in Kuala Lumpur to find sex:
- Jalan Bukit Bintang - Red light district is a place for sex workers to find business gentlemen.
See also: Global list of red-light districts
Prostitutes and Sex Workers
In Kuala Lumpur, lower class brothels and prostitutes are mostly located in Jalan Alor, Jalan Hicks and Jalan Bukit Bintang all in the Bukit Bintang area, and in Jalan Thambipillay, in the Brickfields area. These, as well as the infamous red-light district of Lorong Haji Taib and Chow Kit is the hub for prostitution in Kuala Lumpur. Be really careful when seeing a sexy worker from these areas as most of them are aggressive, abusive and thieves. They talk nice to attract clients and if clients are willing to spend time with them they are taken to a cheap, dark and small love room nearby and these prostitutes demand money in advance. The moment they receive the money, clients are treated badly and are pushed to rush and leave the room within 5 minutes. Some of these prostitutes use abusive language if their clients insist to spend the full time with them for which they were charged. If anything is reported to the police it will go against the victims not the prostitutes as prostitution is illegal in Malaysia and the police get commissions from these prostitutes and provide protection to them.
Higher class prostitutes or call girls (sometimes also called escorts) normally ply their trade at nightspots in Jalan Bukit Bintang, Jalan Sultan Ismail, Jalan Horley and Jalan Imbi. With the influx of prostitutes from China, Thailand, Indonesia, Myanmar and the Philippines, the local girls are getting the run for their money. Of all these foreigner women, those from China (locally called China Girls or China Dolls) seem to have entrepreneurial advantage.
There is a huge disparity in the earnings of a high class prostitute and a lower end hooker in Kuala Lumpur. A high class call girl with a regular clients would be able to earn as much as RM2,000 per night, or even more. She often also works as a Guest Relations Officer (GRO) at an exclusive karaoke lounge to solicit for clients and earn a salary with tips as well. However, life is different for hookers operating at Lorong Haji Taib or Chow Kit. They generally earn just enough for the basic living necessities. They would be lucky to earn RM50 a night. Some supplement their income working as GROs for tips in budget karaoke lounges locally called papaya farms.
Prostitutes in Malaysia not only ply their trade in nightspots and hotels but also double up as masseuse (locally referred to as massage girls) working at massage parlours, spas, salons and health centres in the city centre.
Jalan Bukit Bintang Streetwalker prostitute prices: 20-70RM for Sex session. This is about $7-25 USD. They will take you to short time hotels to have fast sex. Be aware of belongings and STD's. You can find also ladyboys from Jalan Bukit Bintang.
Street walkers in Kuala Lumpur know all the short-time hotels near by. You can go with her to the motel and rent a room for an hour or two to have sex time.
Strip Clubs and Striptease
Strip Clubs are illegal in Malaysia but there are still some underground strip bars in Kuala Lumpur. Also some KTVs have striptease shows with erotic dancers.
Some of the escorts in Kuala Lumpur offer also striptease services. You can negotiate the specific deal if you want bikini dancing, pole dancing, topless dancing or nude dancing. Not all of the escorts or sex workers are open to this, especially if you have a big group watching.
Brothels and Sex Clubs
Anyway you can find different kind of sex places from red-light district areas. Brothels there might be very small and not very cozy ones.
Erotic Massage Parlors... further results
Kuala Lumpur Erotic massage parlors, also called as Spas, Salons or Health centers, also have turn into a big part of Kuala Lumpur’s adult entertainment and sex business, especially erotic massage is very popular now days. Male customers are very interested in having sensual massage, nuru massage, 4hand massage, prostate massage and so on. Sometimes erotic massage parlors might be even called as barbershops, but this name is more often used in China.
Because of the interest in erotic massages, women from China and neighbouring Thailand, Philippines, Indonesia and Cambodia arrive at KL to be effective in Spas, health centres, or similar establishments. These girls, type in the country with social visit Visas to locate easy employment as “massage girls” (as the local call masseuse). Despite their name, some massage centres aren’t greater than brothels.
In Kuala Lumpur, massage parlors which provide erotic massage may also be present in some 3-5 star hotels in KL, or even in commercial centres near KL, for example, Subang Jaya, Sri Petaling, Puchong, Ampang, Pandan Indah, Bandar Tun Razak, Cheras, Damansara Utama, certain parts of Petaling Jaya and Kepong.
It is relatively easy to find these erotic massage centers in Kuala Lumpur. You need to a walk along Pudu road in KL and you’ll notice shoplots displaying corny signboards including “New Girl Massage Kuala Lumpur” or “Friendly Budget Massage”.
Price for erotic massage in Kuala Lumpur depends of your negotiation skills and sexual treatments wanted.
- for sauna and massage: RM 66 to 93 (40-45 mins)
- for extended session of 1 hour: RM 14-20 extra
- for HJ (hand job): RM 80 to 100
- for BJ (blow job): RM 100 to 150
- for FJ (foot job): RM 150 A full package with sauna and FJ will therefore cost about RM 230 or just over US$100.
Massage & Body Rubs
Most of the sex workers on the Kuala Lumpur streets and bars offer massage service as well if you ask them. Anyway there is no guarantee of the quality of the massage if she is not working as a massage escort or in the massage parlor. Many of the prostitutes in KL knows surprisingly well how to give erotic and sensuous massage to the customer.
Massage Parlor Locations in Kuala Lumpur
Spa fines are usually about 350 ringgits. Most of the massage parlors are located at the same area Jalan Bukit Bintang.
Karaoke and KTVs... further results
Asian karaoke establishments (karaoke boxes) are often fronts for so-called gentlemen's clubs, where men are paying for female hostesses to drink, sing, and dance with them. There happens a lot of flirting with the working girls and many times it's possible to take a girl out from these venues. Girls are wearing sexy clothes and play with you. Usually there are no places to have sex in KTVs with the hostesses but who really can know for sure what is happening inside these private singing rooms. At least you are able to negotiate about taking the girl back to your hotel room or apartment.
If you are not sure what to do in a KTV you can always ask the hostesses or the manager how does everything work there. Especially if you look western or wealthy person they are very happy to explain you what services are possible and how much everything costs.
Here are some KTV bars in Kuala Lumpur:
Escort Services and Agencies... further results
Kuala Lumpur escort services and agencies in internet are getting more popular all the time.
Check out WikiSexGuide Adult Classifieds!
It's difficult to find official swinger clubs in Kuala Lumpur, but you will definitely find some swinging couples looking for other swingers in internet.
Sex Shops and Adult Stores
Finding a real sex shop from the streets is unusual but you can order some toys or other adult stuff from online sex shops in internet.
Love Hotels and Short Time Hotels
Nightclubs and Bars
You can also find sex workers from the nightclubs in Kuala Lumpur.
Gay and Lesbian... further results
Internationalisation of Kuala Lumpur has contributed to the growing acceptance of a discreet gay scene.
There are many places in Kuala Lumpur where you can find Gay Parties, Gay Clubs, Gay Saunas and Gay Massages.
Gay Cruising, Glory Holes and Parks
- Central Market Parking
- Mostly the young guys, but also the old ones when they feel horny.
- Kota Raya Shopping Complex
- Lots of hot guys all ages.
- Bandar Tun Razak Swimming Pool
- Mainly younger sexy men. Most Gay action is in the guys changing rooms (especially in the shower stalls), but some daring types will also cruise/flash within the actual pool!
- Central Market, Jalan Hang Kasturi, Kuala Lumpur
- Men pretending to pee at the urinals; guys hanging around outside the stalls; guys hanging around outside the entrance.
- Mostly Malay, Indian and Chinese men.
- Kuala Lumpur Plaza, Jalan Bukit Bintang, Kuala Lumpur
- Sometimes lots of guys at the urinals.
- Bintang Walk
- This street is very cruisy all day, great for looking at hot men as well as cruising. After sunset sexy guys n are out in force. There are lots of out door cafes. Most hot guys hook up and go elsewhere.
- Chin Woo Stadium
- Most eye contact is in the showers or in the changing rooms upstairs. Sometimes if you click with a guy, you can get action in the toilet stalls. Some guys can be quite cruisy in the pool itself.
- Taman Tasik Permaisuri
- Lots of sexy guys in mixed age groups. There is sometimes action amongst the bushes beside the fence -- also behind the toilet block.
- Ampang Park Shopping Centre, Jalan Ampang - Jalan Tun Razak junction, Kuala Lumpur
- Sexy guys in all age groups. Toilets on the upper floors are best for action with anyone you pick up. No security!
- Semua House
- Chineses, Malays and Indians, mostly older men.
- Hilton Hotel
- Washroom in the gym complex is cruisy, plenty of guys naked and up for it. All sorts but some great sexy young guys.
Other Adult Services... further results
Go Go Bars & Pickup Locations
Go-Go bars in Kuala Lumpur are not that usual or same style as in Thailand but you can still find some similarities with them. Try Beach Club Café.
Freelancer bars in Kuala Lumpur are kind of similar than other bars with prostitutes. In these places you still need to pay something if you want to take a girl out. Freelancers work usually by themselves without being employed by any pimps or escort agencies.
You can find many regular night clubs in Kuala Lumpur where you can try to catch freebies. You can find girls in this city with almost every different ethnicity. The most famous night club to find free sex is probably Zouk.
Dating in Kuala Lumpur can be a bit tricky due to cultural differences, so your best bet is to sign up for a dating site before your trip so you can meet a few locals ahead of time. AdultFriendFinder.com, for example, lets you meet local members in Kuala Lumpur and get to know them on a personal basis before you arrive. Take advantage of features like live chat rooms and member webcams so you know who you are chatting with before arranging a face-to-face meeting. Since time in your destination may be limited, get to know each other’s desires beforehand so when you do meet, you can skip the awkward introductions and start having some real fun.
Transsexuals and Shemales
Where to pick up transsexuals in Kuala Lumpur?
The best spots are Lorong Haji Taib, Lorong Haji Taib 1, Lorong Haji Taib 2, Lorong Haji Taib 3, Lorong Haji Taib 4, and Jalan Sri Amar. Collectively, these roads-of-sin form a grid in an area called Haji Taib. The enclave is just 10 to 15 fifteen minutes’ walk from Plaza Hotel on Jalan Raja Laut and also De First Inn at the Jalan Raja Laut/Lorong Haji Taib junction. A handful of gaudy, cheap bars enhance the sleazy atmosphere here. Pub New Jingle Bell on Jalan Raja Laut/Jalan Sri Amar junction; Nan Sing Disco Lounge and Diamond Musical Hall, both on Lorong Haji Taib 1 are hotspots for transsexual GROs.
Chow Kit is also known for its red-light district as well as for its nightly gathering of transwomen.
Golden Rule Number One: if you ask how much and she offers an irresistible price, never accept in glee and follow her immediately up to her flat. Enquire further whether there are any other charges. Is the price inclusive of the room? Are condoms free? Are tissues free? Are towels supplied without charge? Is there a hot shower?
Ladyboy bars and clubs:
- On top of The Ship Bukit Bintang. Drag show on Sat. It helps if you can understand Malay. Funny, and sexy. You'll want to stay until 3am and see what happens.
You can find ladyboy escorts in Kuala Lumpur advertising their services in internet. If you cannot find anyone online, you can always visit Chow Kit area.
Sexual Services for Women
There are many horny guys in Kuala Lumpur willing to have sex for free. Women just need to get in to some local bar to find one for free. There are also lots of male expats living in Kuala Lumpur if you are not that interested in Asian men.
BDSM scene in Kuala Lumpur hasn't been found. There are only some escorts that do BDSM stuff in Kuala Lumpur. Malaysia is a strict Muslim country, so BDSM sex is not that openly discussed topic.
Sleeping and Girl Friendly Hotels
Almost every hotel allows guests to their rooms. For hotels which using access cards for the lifts the security personnel will usually escort your female guest to your room after registering them. Part of the registration process requires your guest to correctly provide your room number and your name.
Certain hotels require you to come down to the lobby to pick up your guests.
See also: Global list of girl friendly hotels
The crime rate is higher than in neighboring Singapore. Crimes towards tourists are usually restricted to bag-snatching, pickpocketing and petty theft. It is important to keep a close eye on valuable items. Theft is more common in crowded places, such as markets and on public transport. Generally, if you avoid deserted areas, get back to your hotel before midnight and use your common sense, you're unlikely to be assaulted. Homosexuality is a crime hence gay and lesbian tourists should be self-aware and careful.
Kuala Lumpur still have a fairly active gay scene and gay bashing is rarely heard of. However, same-sex relationships are a taboo subject and "Carnal intercourse against the order of nature" is punished by up to 20 years gaol and whipping (men only) under colonial era laws not usually enforced against consenting adult heterosexuals. Different states may also impose consecutive sharia law punishments of up to 3 years and six lashes against Muslims of all genders.
HIV prevalence was high among key affected and vulnerable populations. In 2009, HIV prevalence was 22.1% among injecting drug users, up from the 11% reported in 2007; 10.5% among female sex workers; 3.9% among men who have sex with men; and 9.3% among transgender persons. As of 2009, 0.06% of the 1,021,542 migrant workers screened for HIV were reported positive.
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