Dating App Scams and Risks

Dating apps are used all over the world today, and most people just use them to meet someone for a drink, a date or casual company. But the same apps are also used by scammers and criminals looking for easy targets. Fake profiles, escort deposit scams, sextortion attempts and robbery setups have all been reported on platforms such as Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and Seeking.

In many cases the scam starts with what looks like a normal match. The conversation moves quickly to WhatsApp or Telegram and soon the other person suggests meeting somewhere. In tourist areas this may involve someone claiming to be an independent escort, a nightlife hostess, or simply a friendly local who wants to show the visitor around.

Most people using dating apps are legitimate, but travelers should understand that criminals sometimes use these apps specifically to find visitors who may not know the local situation.

Most Common Dating App Scams

Several different types of scams keep happening again and again in cities around the world. Some are simple online fraud, while others involve real-world meetings arranged through dating apps. Tinder Scams are usually just simple scams where the other person asks you to join to a whatsapp or other messaging app and then asks you to send money or joing to their webcam or OnlyFans account.

Escort Deposit Scams

Escort deposit scams are one of the most common fraud schemes found on dating apps worldwide.

A typical setup involves someone claiming to be an independent escort or companion. After a short conversation the person agrees to meet but asks for a small deposit to “confirm the booking.” The payment is usually requested through cryptocurrency, gift cards or mobile payment apps.

Once the money is sent the person disappears, blocks the victim or continues asking for additional payments.

Romance and Investment Scams

In this type of scam the criminal builds a friendly or romantic connection over several days or weeks. Eventually the conversation turns toward an “investment opportunity,” usually involving cryptocurrency or online trading platforms.

Victims are encouraged to transfer money into fake investment websites controlled by the scammers. The site may initially show profits, but when the victim attempts to withdraw money the account is frozen or additional “fees” are demanded.

Sextortion and Blackmail

Another widespread scam involves convincing victims to exchange intimate photos or videos. Once the material is obtained the scammer threatens to send it to family members, social media contacts or employers unless a payment is made.

These scams often begin with fake profiles that quickly move the conversation to private messaging apps or video calls.

Verification and ID Scams

Some scammers claim that identity or age verification is required before meeting. After matching on a dating app such as Tinder or Bumble, the victim is sent a link to a website that appears to verify identity or safety.

These websites often request credit card information or small “verification fees.” In reality the sites are designed to steal payment details or enroll victims in expensive subscription services.

Burundanga and Scopolamine Robberies

One of the most notorious crimes associated with dating apps and nightlife in parts of Latin America involves the drug scopolamine, known locally in Colombia as burundanga. Tourists sometimes refer to this as being “scoped” or exposed to “Devil's Breath.”

Scopolamine is derived from plants such as the borrachero tree. When administered in sufficient quantities it can leave victims disoriented, compliant or unconscious for many hours, often with little memory of what happened.

Criminal groups sometimes arrange meetings through dating apps such as Tinder or Bumble and suggest meeting in a bar, nightclub or apartment. The drug may be slipped into a drink because it is typically odorless and tasteless.

Travel reports indicate that these robberies sometimes involve small teams where an attractive companion first gains the victim’s trust. In nightlife areas this may involve women, independent escorts or transgender companions who meet tourists through bars or dating apps.

Once the drug takes effect victims may hand over phones, wallets, bank cards or ATM PIN numbers without resistance. Some victims are escorted to ATMs or persuaded to unlock banking apps before being robbed.

Authorities and foreign embassies have issued warnings about incidents of this type in cities such as Medellín and Bogotá.

Tourist Dating App Robbery Setups

Another scheme reported in several tourist destinations involves criminals using dating apps to lure victims to a specific bar, nightclub or apartment.

After arriving, the victim may be pressured to buy expensive drinks or may be robbed by accomplices waiting nearby. These scams often target visitors unfamiliar with local nightlife venues.

Taxi and Fake Police Robberies

In some cases the scam escalates after the meeting. The companion may suggest going somewhere else and a taxi is called. During the trip the vehicle may be stopped by individuals posing as police officers.

The victim is accused of illegal activity such as prostitution or drug possession and pressured to pay a “fine” in cash or through a bank transfer to avoid arrest.

Drink Spiking and Nightclub Robberies

Drink spiking is another crime occasionally linked to meetings arranged through dating apps. The victim may be encouraged to drink heavily or accept drinks prepared by someone else. After becoming intoxicated or incapacitated the victim is most likely to be robbed of phones, wallets, watches or bank cards. Some victims wake up hours later with little memory of the night.

Bar Fine and Hostess Scams

In parts of Southeast Asia such as Thailand and the Philippines, dating apps are sometimes used to steer tourists toward bars where the companion works or has an arrangement with the venue.

After matching on a dating app the person suggests meeting at a specific bar. Once there the visitor may be encouraged to buy drinks for the companion, often at inflated prices.

In some cases the companion later claims that a “bar fine” must be paid in order to leave the venue together. After the bill is paid the companion may disappear or refuse further contact.

Nightclub Bill Scams

In several European cities criminals use dating apps to lure visitors to bars where extremely high bills are later demanded. Reports of these schemes have appeared in nightlife districts of cities such as Prague, Budapest, Warsaw and Istanbul.

After ordering drinks the victim may be presented with a bill costing hundreds or even thousands of dollars. In some cases security staff pressure the victim to pay immediately.

Once payment is made the companion who arranged the meeting often disappears.

Safety Tips

Travelers using dating apps should exercise caution when meeting strangers, especially in unfamiliar cities. Meeting in public places, avoiding leaving drinks unattended and refusing requests for deposits or verification payments can reduce the risk of fraud.

See also Escort and Sex scams for related schemes involving fake escorts and nightlife scams.

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