Wellington Sex Guide advises where to find sex, working girls, prostitution, street hookers, brothels, red-light districts, sex shops, prostitutes, erotic massage parlors, strip clubs and escorts in Wellington, New Zealand.

Wellington's central business district viewed from Mount Victoria

Wellington (Te Whanganui a Tara in Māori) is the capital city of New Zealand and second largest city. The Windy City is on the foreshore of Wellington Harbour and ringed by hills, providing the scenic home of many of New Zealand's national arts and cultural attractions.

Sex Scene and Prostitution

Prostitution (sex work), brothel keeping, living off the proceeds of someone else's prostitution, and street solicitation are decriminalised in New Zealand. Coercion of sex workers is illegal.

Cuba/Vivian/Marion Streets in Wellington are very famous of the street prostitution while brothels are gathered all over the city in different areas.

The best nightlife and casul sex areas are very close to each other in Te Aro District.

The first is Courtenay Place and has most fanciest nightclubs. Just nearby you can find Cuba Street. This is a hipster area and also full with bars packed with the sexually most active girls in the world.

The New Zealand Prostitutes' Collective

NZPC is a sex worker organisation which began in 1987, for the rights, health, and well being of all sex workers in New Zealand. It is run by and for sex workers and holds a contract with the Ministry of Health for HIV prevention - which has been extremely successful in New Zealand.

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Red Light Districts

Wellington has no Red Light District as such. Vivian Street and Marion street are the main places to find street based sex workers and some people still consider these areas as red-light districts.

Back in the days during the 20th century, the Vivian Street was part of Wellington's widely known red-light district, particularly in its western half around the junction of Cuba Street. It contained erotic peep shows, strip club and illegal whore houses. During WW1 the district was known as Gallipoli due to the number of soldiers visiting it.

Prostitutes and Sex Workers

There are plenty of brothels, erotic massage parlors, independent escorts and street whores in Wellington. Prices do vary a lot and cheapest sex can be found from the streets.

Street Hookers

Vivian Street and Marion street are the main places to find street based sex workers in Wellington - the majority of which are transsexual women who work from Marion street. Some of the streetwalkers can be also found from Cuba Street and they are quite attractive.

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Strip Clubs & Lap Dance

Here is a list of strip clubs in Wellington:

  • LBold textiks Strip Bar • 147 Vivian St • (04) 384 5761
  • Mermaid • 73 Courtenay Place • (04) 385 0552
  • Santa Fe Dream Girls • 37 Dixon St • (04) 385 9491
  • Calendar Girls Gentlemen's Club, 13 Dixon St, Te Aro, tel.: +64 4-974 5588
  • Dreamgirls F**k Yeh, 37 Dixon St, Te Aro, tel.: +64 27 588 3875


Many of the local nightclubs are in Courtenay Place and on Cuba Street. You will not find any freelance escorts from the Wellington nightclubs, but the casual sex is very easy to find since the New Zealand women have the most sexual partners in the world, according to a global sex survey reported by Durex company. Kivi girls have an average of 20.4 sexual partners, according to a survey - well above the global average of 7.3.Oct 13, 2007

Here is a list of the best clubs and bars in Wellington where one can get laid.

  • The Establishment, 16 Courtenay Place
  • Danger Danger, 132 Courtenay Place
  • The Library , 53 Courtenay Place
  • Mishmosh Bar , 36 Courtenay Place
  • The Malt House at , Courtenay Place
  • Dakota Bar, 74 Courtenay Place
  • Minibar , 24 Courtenay Place
  • San Fran, 171 Cuba St
  • Laundry , 240 Cuba St
  • Hotel Bristol, 131-133 Cuba St
  • Valhalla Tavern, 154 Vivian St
  • Southern Cross Garden Bar , 39 Abel Smith St
  • Golding’s Free Dive, 14 Leeds St
  • The Fringe Bar , 26-32 Allen St
  • Welsh Dragon Bar , 10/12 Cambridge Terrace
  • Red Square Bar, 26 Blair St
  • Casting Couch, 193 Victoria Street
  • Club 121, 21–23 Cambridge Terrace


You can find brothels in the main centre of Wellington. There are around 20 brothels in Wellington and the surrounding Hutt Valley and Kapiti coast areas, including adult massage venues and very small businesses, however independent (private) sex workers make up over 40% of all sex workers in New Zealand. Brothels and strip clubs are concentrated around Karangahape Road and Fort Street.

With the decriminalisation of sex work in the early 21st century, Vivian Street's 'reputation' is undergoing a revival, with the recent opening of Il Bordello Gentlemen's Club, and the reopening of the Liks Bar.

Erotic Massage Parlors

Most brothels in Wellington also offer erotic massage services and many independent escort also offer Happy Ending massage.

Where to find Wellington Massage Parlors:

  • Total Relax, 19 Arthur St, Te Aro, Wellington, New Zealand +64 4-589 8955
  • Intimate Touch, Wellington, New Zealand +64 210 754 348
  • Funhouse, Te Aro, New Zealand +64 27 251 7511
  • CJ's Massage & Spa, 176 Victoria Street, Te Aro, New Zealand +64 4-385 3128
  • The Kitten Lounge THE KITTEN LOUNGE

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How to find Sugar Babies & Sugar Daddies

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Swinger Clubs and BDSM

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Transsexuals / Shemales

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Many transgender and transsexual escorts in Wellington have online ads and seek customers that way. There are also transsexual street prostitutes on Marion street and they are much cheaper than the online t-girl escorts. Quality of the street level trannies is also much lower.

Wellington CD/TV/TG Group is a social group for the connection of practitioners and the dissemination of information. For any interested in any cross dressing activities for what ever reason and to any extent.

Gay and Lesbian

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Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people have the same legal rights as other people in New Zealand.

Gay Friendly Bars

  • S&M's, 176 Cuba Street , Wellington, NZ - Good gay bar.
  • Bats, 60 Dixon Street , Wellington, NZ - Comedy Club
  • Rush Bar, 5 Wigan Street , Wellington City, NZ
  • Motel, Forresters Lane , Wellington, NZ
  • Hawthorn Lounge, 82 Tory Street , Wellington, NZ - Good looking young guys.

Gay Saunas and Bathhouses

  • Steamworx, 5 Wigan Street , Wellington City, NZ
  • Checkmate, 15 Tory Street , Wellington, NZ
  • Emperor's Bathhouse (CLOSED), 5 Wigan Street , Wellington, NZ

Gay Cruising Areas:

  • Lyall Bay toilets, Wellington
  • Paramata Toilets, Wellington
  • BNZ foodcourt toilets, Wellington
  • Onepoto toilets, Wellington
  • Berhampore Public Toilets, Wellington
  • Victoria University Kirk Building first floor toilets, Wellington


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In the past few years BDSM has got a pretty bad reputation, but the basic principles can be extremely liberating and in the long run if you engage with it, turn you on in a way that you would never even have thought about. The fact that the standard media representation of BDSM is of something seedy and weird and sometimes make it feel like a taboo.

"But if girl take the reins it can actually increase their sexual confidence and sense of agency, while giving men a break from having to be 'on top', psychologically as well as literally which is the standard dynamic for most lovers. The trick is to have an open mind to sexuality, obviously anything which causes harm to your loved one or yourself is not good, but we're all humans and exploring the parts that make us a little different is what can make a hugely beneficial relationship.

There are couple very good dominatrix escorts working in Wellington, example Mistress Matrix. There are also many BDSM and sexual fetish groups in Wellington that gather together every month.

Wellington BDSM Groups

  • The Amazing BDSM Supper Club - Wellington based kinksters who get together once a month or so for banquets, gallery exhibits, book readings, wine-tours, fairs, or anything else we choose to do, both kink and non-kink related.
  • Frustrated Submissives of Wellington New Zealand - Please join the group if you are male or female, sub or Dom(me), near Wellington, not near Wellington, interested in a network of like minded respectful people being able to explore their interests, passions and tendencies with confidence.
  • KapitiBDSM - Yahoo - For lifestyle and kinky people for the northern Wellington residents and north to Kapiti and beyond; will have “innovative munches” with your input
  • Kinky Wellington - Non-affiliated group; for members to post about upcoming events, to ask kinky questions, or just to chat about kinky and non-kinky things.
  • TES Wellington - The Endorphin Society Social & educational group for those 18 years and older who are interested in any aspect of BDSM/fetish. Welcomes people of all genders and sexual orientations.
  • Wellington – New Zealand Pro Dommes - Very discreet, fully equipped dungeon and provide sessions ranging from very light tie and tease to severe corporal punishment, anal play and much more. All newcomers welcome.


  • Wellington Swingers Club - One and only official swingers club in the lower North Island. Our premises are based in Upper Hutt. Event Nights are normally open from 7pm to 1.30am (bar closes at 1am) unless stated otherwise. Contact first by phone 04 528 3506 or 027 5283 506. Web: http://www.nzadultswingers.com

Sexual Services for Women

There are couple good looking male escorts who advertise online and work in Wellington.

Sex Shops and Adult Stores

If you don’t feel like visiting or cannot find any local sex shops in Wellington, you can easily order adult products from Online Sex Shop.

Most adult shops in Wellington have a good variety of sex toys, porn movies, erotic clothing and condoms. Some of the sex shops also have an adult cinema attached to them. You can buy Viagra and other potency pills from the Pharmacies, but you need a prescription for them.

Price comparison sites allows shoppers to find a better deal on products sold at numerous retailers (physical and online). Here are a few such sites in Wellington.

Here are a few physical adult shops in Wellington.

  • Adult Shoppe, 251 Cuba Street, Wellington (04) 384 5044
  • D.vice Designer Sex Gear Shop, Wellington (04) 384 1505
  • The Cage, 44 Te Roto Drive, Paraparaumu Beach Paraparaumu, Wellington (04) 902 5432
  • The Exclusive Shop, cnr Vivian & Cuba St, Wellington (04) 384 3835
  • Eff-jays Adult Shop, 143 Cuba Street, Wellington (04) 384 9287
  • Janez, 25 Forest Road, Upper Hutt, Upper Hutt (04) 972 7896
  • Leatherxtreme, Wellington (04) 384 2774
  • The Cage, 111 Vivian Street, Wellington (04) 385 6369
  • Cine Bleu Adult Cinema & Shop, 39 Dixon Street, Wellington (04) 384 6711
  • The Venus Shop, Wellington (04) 568 2644
  • D.vice, Dixon Street, Te Aro, Wellington (04) 380 0120

Escort Services & Agencies

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Indoor sex workers advertise on a variety of online listing sites and in local newspapers.


Most hotels in Wellington are fine if you bring an escort to your room. How ever if you keep bringing different looking girls back and forth to your room, it is more recommended to rent apartment.

You should rent an apartment or a hotel from Te Aro, near Courtenay Place and Cuba Street if you plan to have a lot of casual sex and fuck escorts.

Stay Safe

There is a strong culture of sex workers in New Zealand using condoms for sex, including oral sex. The law also says that all practisable steps must be taken to use condoms, with both the sex worker and the client liable for prosecution if condom use is not adhered to. In case of emergency you should contact police by calling 111.

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