Brothel etiquette

Brothel Etiquette Guide covers everything about visiting a brothel, including how brothels work, what to expect, different brothel models, prices, etiquette, safety and related adult travel topics around the world.

How to Behave in a Brothel

If you're visiting a brothel for the first time, you probably have questions like:

How does a brothel work?
What happens inside a brothel?
How do I visit a brothel?
How much does sex cost in a brothel?
Where can I find a legal brothel?
Do I choose the girl?
When do I pay?
What services are available?
What should I bring?
What are the rules?

Every brothel is different, but the overall process is surprisingly similar almost everywhere.

What Happens in a Brothel?

Most brothels follow a simple routine.

You enter the building, check in at reception or walk into the main lounge, depending on the country. In some brothels the sex workers approach you, while in others you are free to walk around and introduce yourself.

Once you've found someone you're interested in, you discuss the session, agree on the price and decide how much time you want. After everything has been agreed, you either pay the reception or the provider directly before going to a private room.

Luxury brothels usually offer hotel-style service, while smaller brothels are often more relaxed and informal.

First Time in a Brothel

Almost everyone feels nervous during their first visit.

The easiest approach is to slow down and observe how the venue operates before making a decision. Staff deal with first-time visitors every day, so asking simple questions is perfectly normal.

Good first-time advice includes:

Take your time.
Be polite.
Ask questions if you're unsure.
Agree on prices before entering the room.
Respect personal boundaries.
Don't feel pressured into making a quick decision.

Most first-time visitors discover that brothels are far more relaxed than they expected.

How Much Does Sex Cost in a Brothel?

Prices depend on:

country
city
brothel type
provider
session length
included services

Some budget brothels charge under €100, while luxury establishments may charge several hundred euros or much more.

See Global prostitution prices.

Where Can You Find Brothels?

Legal or regulated brothels operate in several countries, although the rules vary considerably.

Some of the best-known destinations include:

Many brothels are located inside famous Red-light districts, while others operate as FKK Clubs, Laufhäuser, escort houses or private clubs outside city centres.