Orgy
Orgy is a gathering or party where multiple people engage in sexual activity together, either in the same room or as part of a larger group-sex event. Orgies are strongly connected with swingers culture, sex partys, swinger resorts, some BDSM events and underground nightlife scenes.
Some orgies are private house parties between known couples or friends, others happen at organised lifestyle clubs, dark rooms in adult shops, swinger resorts or fetish events. Rules can differ greatly depending on the venue, country and type of party.
The sex party scene of today is directly connected to swingers, open relationships, fetish communities, LGBT nightlife and adults-only tourism. Larger sex parties may feature alcohol, costumes, masks, themed events and private VIP rooms.
Cities like Berlin, Bangkok, Barcelona, Amsterdam, Miami and São Paulo have adult nightlife scenes, although finding a legitimate event takes more than turning up and expecting an invitation.
Orgy culture
Well-organised orgies have rules around consent, make condoms available and protect guests' privacy. Phones and photography are often banned.
Many events are couples-only, while single men are usually limited or charged higher entry prices. Gay events may have different admission rules.
Some parties are relaxed social swinger events, while others focus more heavily on fetish culture, anonymous sex, gay cruising, BDSM or public play areas. See Swingers club, Dark room, Gay sauna and Stay safe.
An invitation or entry ticket does not mean everyone wants to fuck you. Ask before touching, respect a refusal and follow the house rules.
Orgy and Sex Party Costs
There is no standard price for an orgy. A private gathering between friends may have no entry charge, or guests may share the cost of the room, drinks and supplies. Commercial clubs and organised parties set their own admission fees.
Check whether the advertised price is per person or per couple. Membership, lockers, drinks, accommodation and private rooms may cost extra. Single men may pay more or need approval before booking.
At a swinger resort, accommodation and party access may be sold together or charged separately. Paying for entry covers admission and the facilities described by the organiser. It does not buy sex or guarantee that anyone will play with you.
Be careful with strangers selling supposed private-party invitations through messaging apps. Confirm the organiser, venue and payment terms before sending a deposit. See Common scams.
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