Neotantra, or tantric sex, is the modern, Western variation of tantra. This includes both the new age and modern Western interpretations of traditional Indian and Buddhist tantra. Tantric massage is a form of erotic massage carried out within this "tradition."
- 1 Tantra Massage
- 2 Where to find Tantra Massage
- 3 The Jobs of the Two Persons in a Tantric Massage
- 4 How to Perform the Tantric Massage
- 5 See Also
Tantric Massage is a ritual of receiving sexual energy, also called sensual kundalini. In this ritual, you are given time to explore your own body without goals. Tantric massage adds energy healing and tantric coaching to the ecstasy of receiving a nurturing and awakening erotic massage. It creates an environment in which you can release stress and feel more alive in your body while staying fully present to your sexual energy.
Where to find Tantra Massage
Providers of tantric massage with verified qualifications can commonly be found through online directories such as Tantralize.
The Jobs of the Two Persons in a Tantric Massage
If you would like to receive a Tantric massage in the best way, you should be learning to be a sexual being without starting to fantasise or trancing out. It teaches you how to truly feel your body as it is being touched and aroused in sexual way, to be in the present moment, aroused and alive.
The Receiver’s Job in a Tantric Massage
The receiver’s only job is to stay present to the touch that other person is offering, and to breathe. Make this a deep circular breath, in through the nose and out through your mouth. This breath helps keep you in the present moment and also helps move the sexual kundalini energy through your whole body of yours.
The Giver’s Job in a Tantric Massage
The giver’s job is to connect and touch in a way that feels good to the giver, not to the person who is receiving the tantric massage. This is one of the most important parts of doing anything. You want to touch your tantric partner as if you are feeling a luxurious fur, and drinking in the sensations of how it feels to rub your hands along this fur. You do this for two reasons. First, if you touch from a place that feels good to yourself it will feel great to your partner. Second, when you wonder if your touch is feeling good then you are forced into your head and out of your body. Tantra is the art of being sensually in your body, not in your head.
How to Perform the Tantric Massage
The General procedure During a Tantric Massage
Begin the tantric massage with your lover lying on his or her belly, the most important thing is to touch more lightly and slowly than you are in the habit of doing. Bring your focus to the touch itself, and use the same type of circular breath that your partner is doing. Whenever you notice yourself holding your breath, gently pause the massage and hold your hands still on your partner’s body. Take a deep loud breath, this will remind you and your partner to breath correctly. Explore his or her whole body as if you have never touched a body before. Linger wherever your hands are called to, move wherever you want to move. This is a loving full body massage so do not forget about those places that do no often get touched like the inner thighs, groin, and the buttocks. The back rub will come to a natural conclusion if you let go of any goals or time frames. When this happens ask your partner to gently roll over. This is a good time to offer some of those drinks or snack that you have prepared. Begin the next stage of the tantric massage with your hand resting in stillness on your partners heart. Spend a moment breathing together simply feeling your heart connection. As you feel called, begin to explore the front of your partner’s body.
The ultimate sensual savory process
Whether a male or female is receiving the massage, your entire body will be massaged, including certain sensual zones. The sexual energy may go up or down during the massage. Allowing these peaks and valleys to happen without trying to control them is nice and very tantric. When the massage comes to a conclusion offer a Namaste "The divine light in me salutes the divine light in you" by placing your hands in prayer on your heart, staying and cuddling and nibbling on the food you set out for yourselves after the massage is a perfect way to close the ritual. You will feel relaxed, yet wide awake. You will be coached to breathe properly, as you sink into more deeper level of relaxation. In this very caring ceremony you will be completely nurtured and pampered in the arms of your goddess, giving you a seamlessly blend bespoke stress-relief with intense full-body bliss for your ultimate stress-melting satisfaction.